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Isn’t its sounds selfish when it is said that “everyone has a reason to pray” , well no doubt, if we need a specific reason to pray then its’ mean we are being selfish in the tagline of human being.
Well. No one in this world is really happy with their life, everyone is immersed in their own problems, a tiny or in a great problem , we all just need a reason to feel tensed. Some people pray to thanks God for everything they have and some of us revile God, if anything bad happens in our life.
Why we always grind ourselves beneath our demands and expectation? Instead of being thankful of whatever we have, God has gifted us everything we need , and we just need to make use of them to meet our requirements.

Last week I went to a temple on the occasion of navaratri, there was a handicapped women with no legs, holding agarbatti (incense sticks) between her fingers and murmured her prayers  , its guilt listen to someone’s prayer but still I try to listen to her prayers, she was saying “hai durga mata, sob kichu debar jonne dhonnowad” means hey Goddess durga ,thanks for everything. I was feeling irritated by her words because she has no legs, no support to stand again in her life but still why she is thanking to Goddess Durga? And finally I asked her that why she was praying so?
She replied me only in a line: “I am alive”
Really, I was not having any more guts to ask anything.

Its my mommy who taught me how to pray, generally she used to do that before dinner   She may have taught me how to pray but,  Actually I started praying from my school days when I was in grade ‘VI’.
Its was the scariest moment when our Biology teacher was asking to dictate a topic  form each of us in class and whoever didn’t able to dictate he busted his thin stick on their bare palm, eeh!  I was  hiding my face behind my friends and I don’t know how did I uttered  “OH GOD! NOT TODAY PLEASE” and finally my dead end came , I was about to stand up but suddenly the period bell rangd up.  Then I realize that what is prayer. By the way, those were funny and memorable moments of my life.
Life is what we make it, we build it we destroy it we raise it , Whatever I am , whatever the problems I faces because the paths I have chosen  and we always need to choose the right path, so I don’t blame God or anyone for this.I confess my every wrongs and  the only thing I pray every day is thanks to the creator of mine who have gifted me everything I need . I never pray to demand anything, I just pray for thanks giving and the only thing I demand from him is “strength” so that I can face and sort out every problems in my life.
After all prayer is:-

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This Diwali Sampoorna Lakshmi Pooja pack would be my handy friend which would give me every things I need with one go.  I stay at highly restricted campus and the main town is far apart from here and I really don’t want to go there , so this pooja pack will fulfil my requirements and I don’t need to hop from a pooja shop to another to collect each items.
I would love to decorate the floor with rangolis and then I will place mud lamps over it, the beauty of rangoli  would enhance at night with those mud lamps.
The pooja places would be decorated with beautiful flowers and then I would start to pray and dissolve myself into divine with the aroma of incense sticks.

Pure Cycle Agarbatties presents you Sampoorna Lakshmi Pooja Pack which contains every essential you needed this Lakshmi Puja/Diwali. Don’t let your prayer out, every prayer you do from your heart would reach to your creator indeed.

This post has been submitted for “Everyone Has a reason to Pray” held by Pure Cycle Agarbatties at
http://www.pureprayer.in/Contest.aspx .


What is Smart Suraksha?

 It is a Android Apps. Can be used as a handy tools at any emergency situations.  Carrying weapons, pepper sprays,  and other defensive items at everywhere is not idle, but these days almost every women carry cell phones with them which is one of the best tools that every person can have and be carry anywhere. Smart Suraksha is a security apps. Concerned with human helps that alerts five of your pre-added contacts with SMS for help and your current location even the GPS is turned off, it can also alert the local police station, whenever you are in trouble, cell phone’s battery is dead low,  or if you are at any worse situation, with just a single button.

Suppose you are in a long drive alone and suddenly your car broke down at an weird place, where there is no options of help from local people. Just press the button and attest one among your five friend will definitely help you and he/she can tell the cops about your current location. Its is not only helpful for women ,it can be used by everyone in case of need any help.

Four features of Smart Suraksha:

If call is better option ,then why Smart Suraksha?
Obviously it is the first question that my friend has asked me too, that whenever she would be in trouble or someone would attack her ,she will definitely call me for help, but don’t forget whenever you will try to call someone for help the attacker would definitely think that you are calling the cops, they will snatch away your smartphone… But Using Smart Suraksha you don’t need to call anyone , and the attacker will not know that you are alerting five people about your situation with just a single button…

Turn the pages of daily newspapers or hop into different Tv news channels, every four out of ten crimes are against women. When I heard about this apps. It reminded me “Nirbhaya” the painful incident at the capital city of India on December 2012 that triggered the nation for safety of women.  The cruel night when Nirbhaya and her friend were wondering around to get any transport  ,they got the wrong people, and they boarded into the wrong bus. Those people were innocence from outside but cruel from inside, her only mistake was that she has believed those wrong people and then her friend was badly beaten and she was…(sorry I don’t want to remember those of her terrible moments ) and I wish she had SMART SURAKSHA with her so that she could have alerted five of her friends or family for help, she and her friend didn’t needed to wait a long for any transport and this world would have not loosed a charming princess.

We can not stop any crimes completely  if crimes can be stoppable then there is no need of cops, and other security forces. We can minimise them, we can let not the situation come from which crimes can occurs. Somewhere , sometimes it would occur again. We live in society and those who do such brutal acts are also the part of our own society , we know those people they may be our friends , relatives, they behave badly in front of us but we ignore them just because they are our friends and relatives. These ignorance rises their evil confidence and end up with criminal acts.

But the situation is worse in India. it is not possible for every father, friend, husband to go along with their lady/daughter/friend every time they step out of house, not even the cops can stand at every corner every street, highways, roads. Its our society and these crimes rises from our society and together we can put out these crimes and let not the situation occur.

 few safety tips for women:
Be Careful: Stay alert whenever you are outside, if you feel uncomfortable at any place , then no need to stay there any more. Get out of that place and move to a different place where there are few groups of people or crowd.

Defend yourself:
Try to defend yourself with whatever you can, even if you have a good nails poke them into the attacker’s eyes.

Pepper Spray:
Women in abroad usually carry stung guns in their bags but stung guns are still not legal in India, but you can always carry a small pepper spray bottle and just spay into the attackers eye, it will not let him see for couple of minutes.

Check back seat: Before you open the door check the back seat of your car properly and never give lift to any strangers.

Social Media: One of the great source for crimes against women. Never updates your personal situations like “Home Alone, Feeling bored” , “At Railway station feeling alone” etc, because you may not knowing that some of your friends from your friend list is following you secretly from a long and their friendship can turn into cruelty at any go.

Treat the eve teasers:  When someone is teasing you, pretend to take his picture and  shout and draw the attention of people.

Raise you voice: Never ignore the uncomfortable activities at you workplace even if it is your boss , don’t worry thinking about losing your job, your one voice can save other girls from such people.

I am participating in the Seeking Smart Suraksha contest at BlogAdda.com in association with Smart Suraksha App.

Had spent some quality leisure time with my buddies  with lots of gossips, holiday plans, and Shopping Ideas as finally our Internal assessment exams for this semester is over and got some relief from these stubborn period :) I know our teachers will not disappoint us , most probably they will give 25 out of 30 that’s enough for me..
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                                                             My smile of freedom :)

 Well this is festive season so we got a break of two weeks from daily hectic schedule but the worse thing in holidays is being in boredom when we have nothing to do. So, I have tones of plans to enjoy these two weeks and I would not let myself in boredom.

                                       Some quality time with these two buggers :)

Waiting for a train 

Unfortunately today is a bad day for my family, it has been raining 
continuously from last three days and because of this a slippery layer has formed over the floor outside and unfortunately my mom got over there ,slipped and fell on ground and fractured her left hand. She was crying and me too with her. I am really worried because she is also a patient of High Blood pressure, so no more holidays, I have to take care of her as much as possible. But thank God I am in holiday to take care of her.

I got a lesson from this incident…  before mom has stepped outside for a walk she thought to prepare tea for three of us but suddenly she told that She will be back after a walk outside and then she will prepare tea and as she went outside she slipped down. What I mean is whatever we want to do , just start doing right now because we don’t know what will be in our moments ahead.


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