To bring change we have to be the change , the part of a change or may the changes may begin with us . India may have pulled itself far ahead in the sector of technologies , health care, infrastructure and education etc but it still lack far behind in the matter of cleanness and hygienic activities .
We need our nation clean and the basic cleanness starts from our home . Bringing a cleanness in home leads to a hygienic society but its for the people who defecate in open , it not only pollute the society but it pollute the air we breath, water we drink and the soil where we grow crops. We can contribute a basic cleanness for this nation by building a toilet at home and  the people who can’t afford to build toilet we should join our hands to build a public toilet for them . 

The use of dustbins can stop littering of dirt everywhere. When we throw away our household wastes they litter around our surroundings and then the flies and insects brings away the harmful bacteria , germs from those littering wastes and infect us by infecting into food and water. Using of the dustbins can stop littering of dirt and wastes as well as our society will look hygienic too. Our society is our home and surroundings is our motherhood which provide us the food, water, air. its our duty and  responsibility to keep it clean and protect it from being dirt too, if we see people throwing garbage around the road we should raise our voice so that they won’t dare to throw the garbage next time in that way .

Well, that question is why India still lack behind for cleanness ?  I may be wrong but what I think is that, it might be the lack practicing of hygienic habits from our ancestors . We learn by watching them, during my childhood I use to ask my grandma that where should I throw the chocolate’s wrapper? She use to say just throw near the road and from then I mugged that after eating I have to throw that wrappers near the road.  But that was past, we are now much educated and we know much about health and cleanness more than they knew , we learned by watching them and now we watch movies and international movies we can see how people keep  their place clean and  green? If we can learn the western culture so quickly then why can’t we learn the hygienic activities in that way?
The prime minister of India called for the campaign “Swach Bharat”  in motive to clean India and bring standardization .  To motivate us he himself picked up the broom and swept  around, even he used the great personalities like Amitab Bachchan , Salman Khan etc to motivate us to participate in this campaign .

Cleanness is not because of this campaign but its for our mother earth and its for the beneficial of our society and this nation. If we keep a standard of cleanness we can minimize  many disease and common infection . We can breath in healthy air, we can grow crops in fertilized soil we can drink the fresh water.  Its our livelihood lets change ourselves for the betterment .

Apart from cleanness the main motive behind the word 'cleanness' is to have a better cleaned system. We have our voice and we need to raise it for every evils going around us. We need a better government then we have to clean it from the small pillars of government where we visits every days such as the government office etc. We see a lots of corruption with our open eye but we can't say anything as we are habitual of them , we see women are getting threatened to death but the society still stay calms but not anymore, we have raise our voice to build a perfect nation, to make it a livable place . Once you raise your voice, you can realize it's power .

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Let be myself frank with all of you and it might going to be a slightly naughty blog post . Its about our early days when Dolu and I  were early lovebirds and those were the best days when nobody knew about our relationship.

We stay in two different cities and on every weekend we had a plan to meet and spend some quality time with each other . Gradually we became so close and we had some feelings or desire to feel each other so closely . Well, love and kiss doesn't need any proper time and moments to give and express but we were so fools that we had planned to have our first kiss on a very special date , that was on her birthday. But my bad luck was that my semester was just over the day before her birthday  and because of the studies and heap of exams I could not find time to shave my beard . Can you imagine how does an unshaven beard for a week looks and feels like? Only one word “Horrible” .

And finally her birthday came and we both were so excited  and in romantic mood because we were going to have our first kiss  like fools  and as usual we went to the same place where we usual spends time together. I presented her birthday gift , it was a wrist watch which she was dreaming from past two years, wow, she was so happy and so am I.  At last she started to talk about the plan of the day we had and was little nervous too and finally the moment came.

I took my unshaven untidy face towards her charming pink lips but instead of kissing she cried loudly and rudely , because my tough rigid beard poked into her soft cheeks. I looked into her face and yes there were few red marks like rashes , that was really my bad luck and finally…

She: “Oh you dirty untidy man, why don’t you shave? Is that your face or rigid road of pins? Look at my face!”

Me:  “I am really so sorry baby, it was my fault, actually I didn't have the time to shave as you know my semester ‘s exams were over yesterday and I was busy in that and I could not shave for a week”

She: “For a week? Oh God! I can’t take it. Your beard poked into my face so badly that I feel like I got rashes”

Me: “I am sorry baby, hey look there is a parlor over there, just wait 15 minutes here , let me shave and we will try again”

She: “Really? You think its funny? You spoiled my plan and my mood , now you got the idea of shaving, very nice, you go over there, and I am going home,  come with your shaven face next time or I will kill you for sure”

So, that was my bad luck and I have never before got insulted in such way

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23rd November  2010 , The Day of Commitment

  After Kabir expressed his feelings to Shilpa , there was a silence between them . On the previous day they hanging out together and had lots of fun but nobody speak any word and went back to home in that way as no one between them had any courage to speak with each other.   Kabir thought that She might has felt bad because of his confession.  But suddenly on this evening a text message blinked on his cellphone “Call Me if you are free now” . Surprise! It was from Shilpa and He called her excitedly

“Do you know when I have kissed you for first time?” Asked Shilpa .

“No, you have not kissed me yet nor am I. But why are you asking me in such way?” Kabir said.

“Do you remember the day of  my neighbor’s  marriage ceremony when we faced shortage of space 
so we girls slept inside the rooms and you all boys slept on the hall . I came out of room at midnight to see you but you were sleeping like a unconscious person. But you were looking so charming with your sleepy face and I could not stop myself and I kissed on your forehead without knowing you. It was a very risky situation .” Shilpa Said.

“Really? You never told me this before , and why did you do that?” Kabir asked

“Oh please, don’t ask this dumb question, I have kissed you because I liked you so much from the day I talked to you for the first time. But I could not tell you anything in afraid that I will lose you.” Shilpa Said.

“Hmm… that’s sweet of you , and we are in same pond of thoughts isn’t it? But hey what about the question that I asked you yesterday? “ Asked kabir

“Which question? “

“The question was that you love me too or not?”

“Oh My God, not again, Kabir why are you so dumb? You idiot, do I have to tell everything think frankly ? What did I told you a minute ago? I am sad because you did not proposed me.  I love you  my dear “ Said Shilpa emotionally .

“I love you too dear, do you know I was so afraid from yesterday that you have felt bad of my those confession and I will lose you. But hey you know, you  have removed a great burden from me it’s the toughest job for me is to propose a girl, thank  you and thank you God ” Kabir Said

“That’s rude, that’s not fair and you can’t escape from this , you have to propose me else I will kill you man! Do you know it’s the dream of every girl that someday her dream boy will propose her in such way that even the heaven will fall down and it makes her feel like she is the happiest and luckiest girl in this planet.” Said Shilpa very emotionally .

“Ok my dear anything for you, even if you need my life then its all yours’ but don’t ask for my life because it’s the only life I have got to live with you” Said Kabir

“I will never ask for that dumbo, and don’t be so formal with me , be frank speak whatever your heart says . hey  I am dying  to see you can you please meet with me in the next week? “ Shilpa Asked

“okay done , lets meet on Sunday at same place & same time”

To be continued … 

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A touch of love has the more power than words and an admirable thing of our life. A touch of love can sweep away all our sadness , a touch of love can gives us courage to stay focused and stay bold. A touch of love can heal the inner injury of feelings and emotions.

Life is like the waves of the ocean we are changing and moving with the waves of the ocean , sometime its high and sometime its low and it never stay the same.  We go through good times and sometime we passes through bad times and that is the moment when we need the tender of love. Words may not work but a touch filled with love and affection and a hug with tender works better than any medic and makes us feel the healing power from inside.

I and Dolu, we are in a long distance relationship and we meet thrice or twice a year, it requires a lots of faith , trust and passion between both of us to stay far apart.  Each moment we stay apart we die from inside to just see each other, every moment we think for each other an inner desire burns us from inside .Hours of talk over phone is not enough to fulfill must of our heart, hours of video chat doesn't fulfill the thrust of our eyes . But when we meet we don’t speak any word, we just hug and hold our hands together for hours and we speak without actually speaking anything.  When I feel her touch I feel like every pain is gone and desires are fulfilled .  we feel like we are alive again , her touches say me  all the things without uttering any single word , I can feel her sorrows and joys too.

Let me tell you a secret,  when I have done something wrong and she is upset over me then I try every possible way to say her sorry and nothing works , I hug her tightly and I says ‘I am sorry’ she melts down so quickly .

Honestly, her one touch keeps my spark alive, her one touch gives me the strength for next six or seven months to stay apart from her , her touch makes me to believe and have more faith on her  , and her touch gives me the courage and motivation to stay focused on the track of my dreams .

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Hygienic lifestyle is the root for a healthy lifestyle and which depends on the food we eat, the water we drink, the air we breathe, the soil where we grow crops and the surroundings where we live. If the food and water get contaminated then it will harm our body and we may catch disease, if the air is contaminated then it will pollute the food, water and even harm our body . If our surroundings is contaminated then it will harm everything around us in every possible way.

The prime minister of India called for “Swach Bharat Abhiyan” in motive to clean India by 2018 and people are participating in this campaign in a mass to clean their surroundings, but there is one thing which is ignored by everyone of us and from there the “swach bharaty abhiyan” campaign should have started and that is , in the recent survey by WHO it is found that about 597 million people are still practicing open defecation in India . India has pulled itself to much ahead in the health, education, technology, infrastructure etc. but 597 million people practices open defecation is really a shame for human mankind in this 21st century.

But there are many people who don’t have proper understating about cleanness specially in the villages . Few months ago I had a visit to my village and I saw there were people who use smartphones of around Rs. 10000 but they don’t have sanitary system in their house and I asked them that why don’t they build a sanitary system in their house? They replied me that they don’t have enough money . wow! I was amazed with their reply and I think that 10,000 would be enough to build a basic sanitary system for the entire people for their family.  

There were few more people who has sanitary in their house but still they practices open defecation and I asked them why? They told me that they are afraid that the sanitary chamber will fill-up soon as they have huge family members.  These implies that still there are people from villages and distinct are where people don’t have proper understandings about hygienic practices and healthy lifestyle, Its our and government’s duty to educate them via every possible medium . Apart from these, the public sanitary system lacks cleanness and maintenance which smells very badly and compel people to go out . People and municipality really need to take care of this issue  .

The practices of open defecation not only pollute the soil but it contaminate almost everything around us . Contamination of air ,water and soil leads to harmful disease like typhoid , diarrhea etc . The insects and flies from there contaminate our edible things present around us.  The female body needs extra cleanness and proper hygiene   else they may suffer from very harmful disease .

If you want to clean India then lets start with the basic things , lets educate people about the importance of hygienic practices .

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As usual today was simple, my day started with a cup of tea and by watching the birds, trees and distant object with my pity telescope .  sometime I accidentally focus my lens on a balcony at the nearby apartment  where usually I see a damn cute girl surrounded with heap of books and I feel sorry for her , maybe she is a medical student (my intention is not to watch her)

I went to the market with a giant groceries list made by mom and there I found some stuffs in that giant list which I  read thrice to pronounce properly “Oh mom! Where did you find this name? “ .    I carried back three full bag of groceries items , really its the weekend shopping or monthly shopping ?  .  There I meet some of my old school friends , they were hanging out together and I wish I could join them but, no time man!.

found these pity kids at market

I came back home and then I surrounded myself with books as semester exams are heading towards us near and near each day . Preparation for semester  and for the Master’s entrance as well as for few prometic exams with which I really feel myself in jam-packed container . I am really frustrated with the daily schedule from home to college and again from college to home  and sometime I get confused with myself that what to do first and what not to do.

That's my Sunday

Now I understand the importance of giving time to ourselves.  We need to sort out little time from our daily schedule for us or for ourselves and spend these time by doing things that’s makes us happy, brings peace in mind , lighten the joy inside us . If you ask me what are the things in my list that makes me happy?
I love lonely place and I wish I could sit there for couple of hours where there is nobody to disturb me and I can quietly stare at the sky, tree , birds and surroundings .

“Hey what’s the plan for this weekend ? are you going somewhere?” Shilpa yelled over the phone call.

“No, I don’t have any plan, I will just be home alone and will watch cricket matches “ Kabir said

“Hey then lets meet today, its been a long since we have not meet . We will have lots of fun, what do you say? “ Shilpa asked.

“Ok fine, lets meet and roll around the streets but hey, don’t forget to bring something to eat” Kabir said

“Yes foodie , I will wait for you at the bus stoppage”

In the evening Shilpa came at the bus stoppage and expecting that Kabir will reach soon. She was wearing a deep pink dress which enhanced the radiance of her beauty, She was looking so charming and attractive that when Kabir saw her , his eyes were freezed , he could not take his eyes off her.  They had already meet with each other many times but this time they were so curious  to see each other .  Kabir was amazed by her beauty, he never saw her before to dress like that , she was looking much prettier than before and may be it’s the knock from his heart full  of hidden feelings .

Kabir saw her waiting at the other side of road, she was looking much prettier than ever but, he didn’t  get the courage to walk toward her , rather he turned around and pretend like he was looking for her and finally Shilpa saw him on the other side and said loudly “Hey dumbo!  Come here , I am here” .  Kabir was nervous and walked towards her like his legs don’t have energy anymore with the expression of love , confusion and shy on his face.  “what happened to you? Why are you looking so weird? Are you ok? “ Shilpa asked him.

“yes I am fine, its nothing , feeling like my tummy needs some food, have you bring something to eat?” Kabir said
“Hmm.. Sandwich and juice , its in my bag take it out.  Today you sounds so soft and emotional , what is the matter dude?” Shilpa asked him

“Honestly you are looking so charming and beautiful today. I have meet with you many times but today you are looking so fabulous, your beauty and fragrance is the perfect blend that has touched my heart . Why are you looking so beautiful today? Please,  I will fall in love with you “ Kabir said emotionally .

Shilpa smiled with joy and shy and said “ Thank you so much, but oh God really! Stubborn Kabir is being romantic or it’s the another part of Kabir which was hidden inside you?  And I have a doubt, tell me you will fall in love or you are already in love with me?  I am already confused “

“I really don’t know, I am confused too.  These days I miss you a lot, I feel so worried when I don’t get your calls and texts , I always think about you , oh God it is very confusion, why did you asked me?  Do you feel something like these too ?“ Kabir asked her confusingly

“hmm.. seems like someone is in love with me… I will tell mine tomorrow, leave this now, lets have fun around.”

To be continued…  

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