I was so busy that today after eleventh day of this year  I have finally realized that I have not made any resolutions for this year. Without any moto without any target  I cannot reach upto my expectations. It's not too late to start a new chapter in a new way but somewhere I have missed eleven days without following any rules of my resolutions. Let's start it now.

Health is the first important thing at first and health should be our first priority, because a lot of things in our life depends upon on our health directly or indirectly. My job, my dreams , family, loved ones, my achievements and financial stability depends on me and my health. And the most important part in this is my family that completely depends on me and I depends upon them. So if I can stay fit then I can bring smile on their faces.
We all are so engaged with our work schedule, we leave for office at morning and get back to home at evening, we restlessly work hard day and night , but for what? Money, life , achievements, success, so that we can enjoy the rest part of our life right? But what! If our health doesn't co-up with the things we want to do? Suppose we want to go out hang out with old school buddies, we want to go to our favourite restaurant and enjoy the delicious food, but our stomach is not fit to take that ! we saved our hard earned money and brought our dream house and car but because of health we can not enjoy it!! Then what's the point of hard work if everything goes in vains just for one term “HEALTH” ?

I was not in touch with blogosphere since last one year, because hectic schedule of life and somewhere I was a slightly upset with myself as I was not getting that much of response from here , maybe because lack of quality contents. But now I am going to stick it  and I am going to write oftenly whenever I can, because blogging brings smile on my face , and whenever someone give response on my posts it gives me a joy from inside. I will surely work hard on it.

I have also written this on my previous post. I have seen like in daily life incident we can quickly find a book from a bookshelf where every book has been labeled properly and placed orderly. And it's very irritating when we have to find a book where every book is unlabelled and scattered around poorly. In such way of we try to organized everything , I know everything is not possible but how much probably we can, then our life will become easy and more manageable than before. Believe me!

From past few months I was so busy with my work that even on weekend I use to work on some private projects other than my regular jobs. It was not for extra earnings but because I loved the research works that I do. But after some incidents I have realized that spending time with family is important as our job. I believe I don't need to work extra hours other than the duty hours for which I have been deployed to prove my credibility towards the boss and organisation. If there is an emergency I will give my full support towards it but other than this I don’t think it's necessary to prove myself towards the organization. Because I have a life and a family, and my presence at my family is much important. They also need my support and some time with me.

From last two years I have not went out for any tour. I just want to get some fresh air, experience something new . I want to explore the nature, snow, mountains, seas. I have my entire life to work but I won’t get much time to frequently travel . I want to leave all the stress, buzz of the city and pack my bag. Hold the hand of my loved one and go out to relax and gaze around.

So these are my resolutions for this year and I will stick to it positively and try my best to achieve them.
ME Thinking of loosing a year


The Real Me

As the year comes to an end and it seems the year have passed by in the blink of an eye, I don’t know why when I had some important thing to do in my life but time passes away terribly fast that I wish I could have hold the time tighter in my hand but the tighter I hold the faster it ran out of my hand and I realized that time is just like a handful of sand, the more you try to hold it tighter, the faster it runs out between your fingers.
Today is the last day of this year and It is a great time to take few moments to look back about everything  that happened in 2018 and what I intend to do in next year.

For me is was an amazing, hectic, crazy hell of a year. For my personal life it was a year filled with joys, family gatherings, festivals and lots of love. I learned to take responsibility towards myself and my family. Well, my professional life was full crazy. Everyday it was seems like more challenging. As I am  working with law and enforcement agency everyday became more challenging because there are some crimes which has taken place on our cyber space beyond our imagination and has put a adverse effect around our society. What I learned from my professional life is that Do your today’s work on today and don’t leave it for tomorrow because tomorrow there can be a hell of work, love what you do because if you love your work then you will not take your work as burden. Also never take your as work as home assignment because far away from the chaos of work you have a life to live , spend some time with yourself and your family as a proper work-life balance is much needed.

In 2018 I have seriously committed myself with my job, I commited my time and energy into it, but the feedback was not upto my expectation. I was slightly upset with my department but I managed to co-up myself because I know there are ups and downs in life and I have to take only the positive vibes from those changes.

The best thing happened to me in 2018 when I got married to Sipra, the one who is my best friend from childhood and we were in relationship from last eight years and finally we got married. There were family gatherings, bond between our two family became more stronger.  I don’t have words to express the feelings after marrying her, I felt more stronger, I felt like I have a stronger support in my life than before, I have got a friend for life, and at the end It made me realize that now I have to be more responsible to myself and my family because now I am not alone to be cared about, I have a family.

In the end here are few brief points that life taught me in this year :

Learn to be organized:
A carefully labeled and group of books are far better than 1000 untitled books. Try to be organized whether in personal life or in professional life, whether it is emails, letters, work desk, your kitchen etc , trust me it has a great positivity in life.

Take only the positivity in your life:
Life is not always easy, there are ups and downs in everyone's’ life, there are positive vibes and negative vibes around us, believe me there are much more negativity around us than positivity, but we only need to intake the positive vibes from them. Stay away from people who demotivate you. Suppose If you have 10 chances and you failed on your 9th go then don’t think that you have failed for nine times but think that you have one more chance to go.

Believe good things are on the way :
If you failed to achieve something then don’t get disheartened always this is may be not the right thing and right time for you.There are something good for you in the bucket which are one the way.

Be responsible to yourself and your family:
Responsibilities towards yourself is the prime need as both in your career and yourself, you should improve yourself everyday, your every mistakes should be a lesson to be more responsible because so many people rely on you, your parents, your wife/husband/ friends and society. Be strong because there are so many unexpected responsibilities and duty towards your family will have to carry upon by you. At the end of the day when you return home your family will look up on you with eyes which are filled with lots of wishes , sorrows , joys and expectations. Be ready for that.
The happiest part of Me right now
a friend in need is a friend indeed

Monsoon of 2018
At a Memorious event with office Buddies
At a meetup with college buddies after a gap of one year

At the end, I am very thankful to my mom & dad for giving me the best in life and showing this beautiful world. I feel myself the happiest person alive in this planet because I have everything that I need to survive, I have my wife the girl I loved from a long ago, I have my parents , I have a decent job , I learned to be happy with what I have and yes I do have dreams and I work hard for that but never get disheartened for broken dreams. I don’t find problems in solution but I find solutions in problems and you can always see a smile on my face that is real me.

Lets hope the new year 2019 may bring more joys , health and lots of expectations, positive vibes and new resolutions.  Wish you all a Happy New Year.